"What I need is the dandelion in the spring. The bright yellow that means rebirth instead of destruction. The promise that life can go on, no matter how bad our losses. That it can be good again." - Mockingjay by Suzanne Collins

Sunday, May 8, 2011

A Day Without A Life

Recently, I ventured to participate in a day without technology. It was certainly an interesting experience; mostly for reasons I expected, but also for reasons I had not forseen. The day was Tuesday, May 3rd and it started off like any other.
My alarm went off (because a certain teacher took away the clever idea of missing class because I couldn't use an alarm), turned off my phone and threw it in my desk so that I wouldn't be tempted to take it to class with me. The night before, I had let my mom know what I was going to be doing so that she wouldn't call SWAT to come find me when I didn't call her for the day but other than that, I told no one. I only had one class that day so I had a lot of time to waste and I figured the best way to spend it would be to sit under a tree and finish off a book I had been meaning to finish for months, Mockingjay by Suzanne Collins. Once finished, I headed back home where I had dinner and spent quality time with my roommates.
The day seems deceivingly simple and it was indeed a wonderful day. But when I turned my phone back on at about 1am that night, I found about 15 text messages and there were tons of notifications on facebook, it was overwhelming. My boyfriend had sent about half of the text messages and seemed pretty irate that I hadn't texted back. Surely he thought I was ignoring him and on second thought, I probably should have told him about my day without technology but what can you do?
The day was the complete opposite of what I had been expecting. I had expected to be miserable without my phone, laptop, flat iron, iPod, etc., but I ended up being fine without them; it was the other people in my life that weren't fine with me not having them. Surely, if I hadn't told my mom, she would have thought something terrible had happened to me and my boyfriend ended up more miserable than I had been about the whole thing. What an interesting twist my day seems to have been after I've had the time to reflect on it. Is it just that we are dependent on these devices as individuals or has a whole new culture evolved, hindering us from being able to detach from devices and the emotions that are tied to them at all?

2 comments:

  1. It sounds like you had a pretty great day without technology. I've gone a week before without technology and its been some of the greatest times of my live. During that time I developed friendships that I know will last a lifetime. Everyone on these trips were going without technology and so I think it made it easier for me to go with out it too. Its weird to think that going without technology can become very relaxing and make thing seem more simple.

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  2. I'm glad it was a good experience for you. I'm sure it would be very different for me as well, but I'm sure it would just need some time to cope with. There's so many things we forget about when we allow technology to take over how we do things.

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